LongHairedGal » any idiot there feels they are entitled to give you their "counsel". This is no exaggeration. This can take the form of polite advice in conversation, a phone call OR it can come in the form of remarks. This can happen any time because some Witness either saw or heard you saying, doing, wearing, attending, associating or working wherever, etc...Witnesses are also notorious for gossip and tend to envy, so if you have education or a decent job, you are more likely to be scrutinized.
Well, in the case of Bro. Brown, he felt bad because he didn't take the less senior elder's counsel about using more scriptures in his talks. He thanked “Ben” for his counsel, but inwardly he resented it. But what if he had, at the time, said: “Look, Ben, when you give your talks, you can use as many scriptures as your heart desires. But when I give my talks, I'll use however many scriptures as the Spirit guides me to use.”
Would this be considered out of line? Sinful, even?
Also, do they call people by their titles? Since Brown said he'd been an elder “longer” than Ben, he obviously felt (at the time) that the counsel was unjustified. It made me wonder if Brown was still an elder since they called him “brother.”
FedUpJW > You must run around looking for any and all excuses to jump down the throat of your fellow "brother" or "sister" with unsolicited, unwarranted, unwanted, needless advice in the ever present agenda of control.
When someone offers this advice, how do they do it? “Hi, brother Brown...great talk, but if I may offer you a little counsel, you'd make your points better if you used a few more scriptures.”
If everone does it, I reckon meetings would be somewhat stressful. But is the rule that you can counsel down, but not up? And I suppose counseling a member of the GB would be out of the question.
Now what if I fancied myself one of the Anointed Class and partook of the Memorial every year? Would I still expect to be counseled? Being a former member of the faithful slave class, why should I listen to the great crowders?